Confronting our prejudices is the only way to evolve, both individually and as a society, Ryan Fan. Doing so in print takes humility, self-reflection, and guts.
This piece is a great insight into how a dominance hierarchy also hurts men, and what it takes to be fully yourself as a gay human. Until societal attitudes change, gay folks will never not be coming out, which is both hazardous at times and draining.
As a woman, I’m tickled whenever another human comes on to me, regardless of what genitals they have or what gender they identify with. Then again, I’ve never been convinced human attraction was an either/or situation.
To me, it’s purely a heart thing and the only thing that concerns me about human sexuality is mutual consent.
As the twitter hashtag goes, love is love.