…I don’t want to touch people I’m attracted to and I don’t want to be touched, held, felt, together. But isn’t sex maybe an integration of that communion that happens when you sync with someone’s mind, when the people involved share a particular wavelength or whatever you want to call it? Isn’t sex in a way like a good conversation in which the partners listen to each other. Isn’t sex like communication, like a dialogue but with bodies?
So much yes, Pablo Pereyra.
I’ve always looked at sex as the highest form of human communication but not everyone gets that. You do though.
And I think James Knight does as well.
Allan Milne Lees had some similar thoughts about sex recently and I enjoyed his take because, as he rightly points out, it seems to be mainly women who write about sex on Medium, for some bizarre reason. Have a look: